Experience holds on tight than heard

Why in our lives, things experienced stays longer than heard or being told? giving it an example, we can never forget an experienced lie than a cautioned advise. We get to know the truth only by merely experiencing it and not by just hearing it.

Many say this is heights of foolishness not to obey instead to suffer and learn, and to add on to this there are various proverbs in support and also contradict this school of thought.

I always vouch for the experience part; learning through experience. Today i am able to share this only because i was able to allow patience in my life. The process of learning through faults. There are many a times i have been told not to do things but i end up doing and continue to suffer for a short span and result in some worthy reflections.

I know the consequences of lies cos i have experiences, i know the consequences of true cos i have equally perished with hard truths.I know how to speak to people cos my ears were fed with back talking.

I cherish  experience because it is a surprise and a very honest learning. Experiences are honest. Experiences teach me to teach others. It is the raw truth. Try learning from experiences you will have the real taste of life.

Above all i never said to disobey or listen to people .... :)


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